Just because I went through lots of them doesn't mean I know it all. Yes, humans learn through mistakes, but we don't learn as a whole. After every setback it's just a new lesson learnt, never say you've completed learning something. The depth of learning is far beyond what we can measure and what we know, just like how we couldn't measure how tall the skies are from the ground.
Through every parts and parcels of life, we learn. We shed tears, we reflect, we regret and that's how we learn to be a better person eventually. Never had a thought why do only learn by going through hardship? Some says without going through the pain, the lesson wouldn't leave an impact with you. So does this mean that everyone on earth don't remember the good old memories?
In hope that in this world, leaving will never be the situation humans will be left with, but without leaving will there be new things coming about? Like the chinese sayings, "旧的不去，新的不来." Contradicting isn't it? I find it really confusing at times on this very earth. From the day I'm born, I might not experience a lot of things, however I can say confidently that I've learnt and grown much more from the day I arrived in this world. Everyone does, maybe I should say to be a much better person or worse? Different people with different perspective. Like let's say, you might be a top scholar yearly however you're having the worse attitude. So does the world label you as the good or the bad?
People come, people go. That's all included as a package in our life ever since we're born. It's up to you to live it like a dream when the person enters and when that person leave, you eventually woke up from your dream. @tinyfairyz shared this with me yesterday, "A relationship don't depend on the duration, but the duration where you can tolerate that person's character/attitude."
Which I find it right, marriage is for a life-long, you're gonna be with that person for as long as you both live in the world. What era are we in right now? You love each other at the instant and you find that wedding's on the way? Then when that honeymoon period is over, LET'S DIVORCE! In the past, marriage where all arranged by parents, they do not have the chance to get to know each other before the marriage. Or worse scenario, they don't even meet the other half until the day of marriage, but surprisingly they could last even longer than current freedom of love. Right now, we can actually choose our very own life-long partner. Did we take it for granted, did our tolerance level just decrease or did love just blind us at that very particular moment?
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